生活中确实有很多诱惑，但最重要的是要把握住自己。人若是做了自己的奴隶，那便是什么事情也做不成。而且，最为重要的是，人要明白自己到底需要什么，什么才是真正的幸福。关于这个问题，我冥思苦想了很久，得出的结论是：人只要战胜了自己，便战胜了整过世界。一开始就别让它错。什么事情都是一总习惯。

宝贝不是一直都在情感的世界里争扎吗？其实争扎来争扎去，不就是两个自我在这里打闹来打闹去吗？对任何事情，其实内心深处早已有了答案。我们为什么不选择哪种通往幸福成功的路呢？路是已经早铺好了的，就看自己怎样去选择。选择的不同，也就有了不同的人生。

The secret of success is the complete overlapping of two ourselves in your body. You can find out this good situation and balance through think deeply. But you shouldn’t count on it will come true in a short period. Sometimes the conversation of two ourselves is calm, but in most of time this kind of conversation is conflictive. Two different strength are always struggling in your deep heart. One strength pushes you towards right, but another pulls you towards left. Naturally, you will feel confused and cann’t find a right way to follow. Maybe you will lost your courage in this war, maybe you will do a wrong thing. Frankly, everyone may encounter this dilemmatic situation in his or her life. So our lives are full of pain. What we should do? The right of select belongs to you. At each cross position, you can make right choose, and you can follow the right way. The right way lies in your heart. The right way is the complete overlapping of two ourselves in your body.